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Breathing
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I’ve never been good at ‘counting to 10’
It seems to let the anger brew
And stew
And just get stronger
Perhaps I should wait longer?

But I think even better
Is conscious breathing 
And focussing on metta
‘Loving kindness’ 
Taught by the Buddhists
Have you tried it?

I guess it’ll take time
For me to breathe
And not to seethe
But really if I can see
Will it matter, this thing
In a year
Or will it be forgotten 
How
I got mad
And ‘had a cow’

So is it worth it
This big stress
Or shall I breathe
Breathe
Breathe
Clean up the mess
And carry on 
Laughing and joking

Homeopathy


One of the worlds
Most amazing therapies
Or what some would call 
A system of medicine

Others would call it
Pseudoscience
But don’t mind them

Some, like Hering
Set out to explore
And loved it so much
They created laws

For Hering that was
From inside out
From above down
And latest in, soonest out

Others, like the Tanzanian government
Set out to disprove homeopathy too
And worked with siegsbert 
In Dar Es Salaam
Who was treating malaria
It’s a nightmare to find on a google search
But that’s not the point of this verse
Tangents I am good at!
So they wanted to show
It was all smoke and mirrors
Do you know
What happened next
I don’t think it was supposed to be a test
But he treated their kids
Who’d suffered a long time
And the government sat up and listened
Then surprises abound
Included it on their
List of therapies to be found 

I suppose my point is 
When a well intention friend
With no offence meant
Says ‘placebo for sure
Where’s no other way
That this thing can work’
There’s no need to get angry
Defensive and stuff
You can think ‘that’s all you know
That’s enough
For right now
But you never know
When one day you’ll ask for more
And you may be happy to explore’

I had it one time with a friend 
That I met, for the first time at a festival
When she asked what I did
‘I’m a homeopath’ I said
“Oh. Well we won’t get on
I work for big pharma”
I may paraphrase slightly 
It could be more likely
She said Glaxo Smith Kline
The memory fades over time
Anyway, get on we did
And many years later
She asked for a recommendation 
Of a homeopath close to her
She wanted to see one for 
A health thing of hers 

I suggested Jackie McTaggart 
She went along, she did tell me so
And her thyroid issues, they started to go
She was a powerful woman 
Strong and capable
She could move mountains 
If her mind to it she set
I wonder if you’d like to take a guess
As to the remedy she had
Anyone?

It’s not a lot of information
I’d never expect to prescribe on just that
But whilst we’re here…
A remedy to pull out of the hat?

Plutonium nitricum was what she took
Have a look in one of the books
My favourites are Patricia La Roux
And there’s also Magriet too

One time later we got to chatting
Filled with gratitude 
She told me how if I’d gone on
Protested and defended
This thing that I love
She’d never have explored it
But because in my stride I took it
She happily went and booked in
That appointment with Jackie

And now, do you know
When someone has a bruise
A sneeze, a hangover
Guess who comes over
With the arnica 
Nat mur or Nux vomica
That’s right 
My friend who said 
We’ll never get on
Because of what you do
I tell as a story, a lesson 
For you too

So be bold, explain and explore
But those slower friends
Don’t show them the door
For some of us take longer to get it
Whereas others are there going
Can we neck it?! 

They’re all welcome and as my dad says
Make up ‘the rich tapestry of life’
Sometimes we all need some strife
And arguing with skeptics
Mostly isn’t worth it
But a few pointed comments
I am a fan of sharing
Feel free to explore
On this topic for more
A chat with a skeptic one and two
They’re on my blog, anytime for you
I think it’s called a recent chat
It’s on there, a little way back

Its time to take my leave
And say thank you for listening
It’s truly amazing
This thing that we’re learning
I’d not be without it
So grateful to be here
Sharing and learning
Now, back to the compère 
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Transformation
​

Transformation
Illumination
And I pondered 
How when the butterfly 
Looks back on the caterpillar 
It sees not regret
But necessary steps
In the process

Transformation
Illumination
An awakening time
When people see
That money = time
Whilst you can be
Rich in one
Being poor in the other
Doesn’t make sense
Still sat on the fence?

Time to see
That’s there’s so much more
So much to see, to do, to explore
Time to spend with loved ones
Doing, growing, being
To visit friends
Sit around fires, seeing
The flames and the shapes
The amazement a changing 
Thing like a fire creates

Transformation
Illumination
A time of reality checks
And recognising
Not all we’re told
Is for our benefit
Questioning, thinking critically
Feels so necessary

Transformation
Illumination
With it comes pain
You’ll never be the 
Same again
Never be the old you
But you know you can’t choose
To stay still
Not learn
Not grow
The questions are
What do you know?

Which way do you want to go?
For it’s true
There is the head in the sand
Approach
Go for broke
It’s definitely an option
Or you can feel 
The growing pains
It’s another way

Transformation
Illumination
What do you think
The dandelion feels
As it pushes through the concrete
Beneath our feet?
Keeps going 
Up up up
Not stopping
Because it got tough
Then it breaks through
And what a view

Well at least I imagine
Compared to the underside
Of the concrete it was 
Buried below
Sunshine, light, air
People stop and stare
At this amazing task
For this tiny flower
And when it gets a shower
Of glyphosate
I want to blame Mr Gates
But there are others
Invested in Monstanto and Bayer
It wouldn’t be fair to 
Blame just one player

When it gets a shower
Of Round Up
Do you think it gives up?
It might wither and die
But come next year
It’ll be here
All over again

Transformation
Illumination
Not giving up
When it gets tough
Keeping on 
Keeping on
Dance, laugh
Sing a song

We have no idea 
What the future brings
But, as we all know now,
The bird doesn’t have to sing
Because it has a song
But because it can
Like any man
Or womankind too
Not giving up 
When it gets tough

It’s kind of hard out there
And times it’s tough in here
But remembering the caterpillar’s journey
Has helped realign me

Transformation
Illumination
It’s not always pretty
But as I wrote this ditty
I hope you found
Something to resonate with
Something that makes sense
To take home today

Play


I’ve something to say
All about play
And how it is possible
We don’t do it enough

Don’t shrug it off
Please hear me out
For when did you last
Belly laugh and shout?

Playing is so many things
To different people
But I wonder
If you create more ‘sheeple’
By keeping them busy
Worried about
What to buy next
Where to go out

Imagine if there was time
To sit and play 
And not to say
No, not today
Today there’s work I need to do
Tomorrow, or tomorrow 
Then I’ll be there
Or perhaps the weekend
Without a care

We’ve got so serious 
So grown up
It’s time to get out there
And say WTF
Are we doing
Living without playing?
It’s surely insane
Innit?
As my friend Tilda would say

She’s delightfully Spanish cockney
And has the most amazing
And slightly filthy sounding laugh
Always a glint in her eye
In her beautiful face
One of those folk
Who would always make space
Or get on a magic bus
To a far flung city
To play out and be brilliant
With great periodicity

There are those
Who simply make you feel better
By just being around you
Make you feel playful
Joyful
Make you feel like you
If you have one of those people
Doesn’t have to be hundreds
One is just perfect
Then tell them
How brilliant they are
That they make you feel
That you want to play
And be silly again

For that’s a gift
I’m very sure
And if we have enough of it
We can turn frowns upside down
Into beaming smiles
And nourish ourselves
As we walk the miles

For younger it feels we will not get
But playing, we mustn’t forget
As the quote goes
‘We don’t stop playing because we get old
We get old because we stop playing’
It’s more than just a saying

I think we need to listen up
Go play out, forget the nip and tuck
For it was Roald Dahl who said
“A person who has good thoughts 
Cannot ever be ugly. 
You can have a wonky nose 
And a crooked mouth 
And a double chin 
And stick-out teeth, 
But if you have good thoughts 
They will shine out of your face 
Like sunbeams 
And you will always look lovely.”

I think playing is similar
Play lots and you face will beam
With a grin
Like a sunbeam
And wrinkles forgotten
It may even be 
You get out your bottom

Of course it goes without saying
That this isn’t ordinary playing
But there’s nothing more hip
Than a great skinny dip
With some wonderful women
That’ll get you singing
And laughing a lot
Just getting that bod
Down to the water
I think you ought to.

Insanity
​

It feels like insanity
We can’t kiss our elderly
Who made it through wars 
But now we have masks
Aprons and gloves
To go to visit 
Those that we love

I hear you, I know
There’s a virus about
But having done the tests
That say you can still
Go play out

But contact
Human touch
For the dying
We have to refuse
What is all this lying?

Put me in 
A bed in a room
No contact for years
With relatives that love you
I’d soon be going gaga
Wouldn’t you?

I cannot imagine
How it is to not feel their skin
Against yours
To see them walk 
Out of the doors
Without a kiss
How did we miss
This moment of sanity

And, perhaps more importantly
How can we get it back
Start to unpack
This web of lies
The government denies
Says the measures work
But against which test?

They’re like a safety vest
That doesn’t really perform
Put it on
And you’ll need to do 
Other things too
Perhaps starting first
Don’t go out
Don’t get in the line of action
For that may show
The vest isn’t working

For you can still die
Trussed up and dependent
And having to wear the vest
Every day
You never know
Who might show
Up and try to kill you

And an unseen threat
More terrible yet
Than something you can see
Watch out - is it you, is it me?
To be constantly afraid
Will weaken our system
Is it vanity?
As we try to create super-humanity?

Humans that will never die
Go on to fight everything
Or leave to the skies
For it seems 
Those invested in dreams
Of flying to Mars
Or seeing the stars
Are also those keen to eradicate
Our humanity
Our ability
To wait 
For self gratification
Or instant sensation

And is it true
That those who will profit
That it could be a strange fit
That one and the other
Are entwined like lovers
That our need
That our greed
For certainty
Is what’s being exploited
But ultimately
Our humanity

Slow Rebellion
​

Errant brambles
Pavement weeds
Plants rebelling
The constant manicuring

People speaking 
Community seeking 
Challenging the mainstream
The perpetual daydream 

Billboards screaming
You need this
Get that watch
This perfume from whale piss
Will make you so sexy

Sheep queuing
To line up
Get me the latest
Hook me up

How the high and mighty 
Must laugh
As they drive folk on 
towards a heart attack 

McDonalds, KFC, Pizza Hut 
Gimmie gimmie don’t look
At the ingredients
Quick just stuff it in

Like the fast fashion
Piling into wardrobes
No idea how
To pay for any of this stuff

Not just the cost at the till
But those who are made ill
From working every hour God sends
For us to go out and spend spend spend

Those in the sweat shops
That’s who I mean
Sewing all hours 
Fixing the seams

On all the cheap clothes
Bags, tops and coats
So that we can make savings
I’ve got misgivings 

This might not be the way to go
Aren’t all the best things
Just a bit slow?
Handmade and mended

Least said, soonest mended
So I’ll not go on and on
But you see
The cost is so much more
Than the price

On the ticket
Go check it
I’m sure you’ll find
What I’m speaking about
Isn’t just for the rhyme

So rebel where you can
Like the flowers in the cracks
Beat The Man
At his own game

As you start to notice
It’s never the same
I wish you well
Those under the spell

And one day you may wake up
We can all choose
Individual styles that say
I am me

Without the fast fashion
The tops and the hat
The accessories and all the tat
We can be us

Uniquely and notice
All of the beauty
That comes from stopping
Being sucked in
To the marketing spin

With love for slow fashion
And mending,
Em x

Getting in
​

Getting in
It really is the strangest thing
It’s always hard to get in
We know what’s on the other side
But that doesn’t make it easier to slide
One foot at a time
A little deeper each time

And then the swearing
As you launch in
Remembering a long out breath
That helps me each time
As I get closer to feeling divine 

It takes me a few moments more
To not to hurt, to implore 
Myself to keep breathing
But what a feeling
A gift
To have this

This presence, this present
Of the river
To be a witness to the kingfishers flight
To see the herons, or kites tonight 

Or even standing getting in
Whilst the ducks swim up
What a win!
It really is such a gift

To see, to be witness to all this
And realising every time
You thought you couldn’t 
But it’s all fine

And as you swim
The water changes
You change
Alchemy in its purest form

Never the same getting out
As you were when you went in
What a gift
To experience all this

The call of the river
​

Waking
Tired eyes
Grey skies
To go or not
That is the question
The only one
But…
The call of the river 
Is strong
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